Friday, 17 February 2012

my reflections on love

I want to love, but I don’t want a reckless love. This is the reason why I haven’t chosen a girlfriend yet.

The feeling of love and romance is enjoyable, but the feeling of jilting or being jilted is extremely bitter, which sometimes becomes a lifetime pain for both.

Love is a kind of responsibility about marriage, which can influence the whole life. As a result, it must be seriously treated. If love starts recklessly, the ending will be full of bitterness.I have seen many lovers in high school break up after the College Entrance Examination. I think the reason they broke up is because they haven’t considered their love carefully before becoming lovers and would not to take the responsibility any more after graduation. The love between them is reckless.

To have a great love as well as life, I would like to know more about the girl before considering loving her. She is the person who I will spend the rest of my life with. If I chose to love recklessly, it is irresponsible to both of us.

I want to find my love, but I will think twice before it.

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  1. ZHANG BOWEN17 February 2012 at 22:43

    Mature and thoughtful！！A good blog that gives me a lesson on love~~Yeah，you should be careful to love~

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  2. Li Xiaoman18 February 2012 at 02:59

    From your blog, I must say that your are a very responsible man. I agree with you that lovers should be careful to avoid some bad consequences. Although love is blind, people need to be responsible in a love relationship and leave no regret.

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  3. Xia Lu18 February 2012 at 23:10

    I totally agree with you. An unwise choice will harm a lot of people. Considering carefully does not mean hesitation and that helps find true love.

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  4. Wang Tianqi20 February 2012 at 03:56

    A reckless love can be really painful for both. Responsibility is important in the relationship. I think sometimes we should make a balance of thinking and deciding. If we consider for a too long time, the one you like will be taken away by someone else. Considering too much sometimes is not so good, however seizing the chance is better. I hope you will meet your suitable girl early! I am looking forward to your good news!

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    1. Zhou Qingshuo28 February 2012 at 07:07

      ^v^the same to you! Seizing chance is also important! I am trying to find a balance of them.

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  5. zhuxin20 February 2012 at 05:22

    I think you are a rational person. Sometimes when a person makes a decision about love, he or she may not be so rational, because love is blind. Good luck to you!

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  6. Ke Kairan21 February 2012 at 04:09

    Your first paragraph is so evil that I cannot help thinking there maybe some deep meaning in it:).
    Just kidding ha.
    I agree with your opinion, and I think perseverance should be taken since one fell in love.

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    1. Zhou Qingshuo28 February 2012 at 07:13

      yeah. once I make a decsion, I will never give up!

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  7. Wang jingrui21 February 2012 at 05:24

    I agree with you that love should be responsible, and from your blog it seems that you are a really responsible man. Responsibility is an essential part of marriage life, so before making promise to someone, we have to have enough consideration. However, somethimes a couple break up or get divorced, not because one of them is responsible for their marriage, maybe it is because only after they got married, did they find they were not the right one with who they can share their whole life.

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    1. Zhou Qingshuo28 February 2012 at 07:17

      people can also change as time goes on. Love needs protecting and caring too

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  8. Chiayen7 March 2012 at 18:51

    I have come across a saying that if you can be rationale in love, then that which you are experiencing is not true love. I think that it is not easy to be rationale when in love. However, I fully agree that once both parties make a decision to become a couple and to get married, they have to be responsible to each other. "Love needs protecting and caring," well said :)

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