After learning the article “love in the time of TV hysteria”, I have some opinions about true love.
I think loving someone does not mean having him or her but giving happiness to him or her. In the article, Arif said he loved Gudiya, but he could not accept the baby. I think if Arif really love her, he should know the importance of the baby to Gudiya. Loving someone, people should not control him or her. Like the movie---- Casablanca, Rick gave up the chance to go with his first love. He gave her the last two tickets to leave there with her husband. I think a man can sacrifice himself to let his true love live happily with others.
I also think true love is not depended on money or position. The true love never ends with poorness. Just like what people said in their wedding “I, (name), take thee (name), as my lawfully wedded husband (wife), in sickness and in health until death parts us.”
“I thought that it mattered what I said or where I said it, then I realized, the only thing that matters is that you. You make me happier than I ever thought I could be, and if you let me; I will spend all my life trying to make you feel the same way.”Maybe this proposal in a TV shows defines the true love. Either Money or position does not matter; the only thing that matters is the person you love. The only thing that you can give and hope to give to your lover is the happiness.
I totally agree with what you have said in your blog.If I love someone,I will try to accept and love all the things of her.Also,I will try my best to bring her happiness.After reading your blog,I think you are mature enough to have a girlfriend.Best wishes!
ReplyDeleteIt will take a long time to get a girlfriend to me.
DeleteBy the way, you published your blog so quickly. How did you do that?
Ha~~I just write it on my computer first and then quickly put it on the Internet. Anyway， I believe you will find your beloved one soon. HaHa！！
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ReplyDeleteIn that case,I agree with you that Arif is selfish to some degree. Maybe in that case, he insisted that Gudiya was his wife partly because of his self-esteem, his face and some other things rather than love.
ReplyDeleteAfter reading your blog, I am impressed by what you have said, and I agree that sometimes love is a kind of sacrifice. Nowadays, people are under too much pressure, and sometimes love is not that pure any longer because some people tend to focus on the fortune one has rather than the certain one, so I think it's really good of you to define love like this in your heart. I wish you can keep your mind and find your true love!
ReplyDeleteyeah, I agree with you. Those quations make your blog more powerful! Happiness is one of the important parts of love. Lovers have the responsibility to make each other feel the happiness of love. You can feel it before long!
ReplyDeleteI am intrigued by the statement that love is a sacrifice. This seems to imply that love is burdensome. Why can't love be a win-win situation for both parties? Why should one person benefit from the relationship? If you love a person, you do not see an act as a sacrifice because you do it out of love and wanting to see the person happy and you are happy, too.
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