Wednesday, 15 February 2012

Where is true love ?

        These days, love is usually a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and candle light dinners; these days, many people don't marry to the beloved ones, but to the treasure someone has. I often ask myself, where is true love in the world, and I do find the trails of true love.
      True love hides in the man's hands when he helps his wife wash dishes in the kitchen on weekend. It also hides in  the lunch box when a woman prepares the lunch for the man and sends it to the man's office. In addition, people can find it on the sofa when a couple sit together and watch TV at night. Maybe true love will not show up in a very luxuriant way, it will just be in the simple things in daily life, and be free from all unnecessary ornaments. After all, sometimes the essence of something just can be find in the most simple issues.
      Based on what I have given above, I want to say that although the rate of divorce has increased rapidly these years, people should not give up the belief that there really exists true love in this world. It may just be there and wait to be discovered by the certain one.  
      Where is true love? From my opinion, the answer is that it is always there invisible until one day people can really realise the nature of it.

11 comments:

  1. Hi~To be honest,when I heard that you did not have a boyfriend before on the first day,I felt that you must be a mature and outstanding girl waiting for the true love~I appreciate you and I want to tell you that besides me,most of my friends in Beijing have not ever found a girlfriend yet,too~Though it may be painful and annoying sometimes,especially on the Valentine's Day,I think it is okay because we can still keep our “first love”. Thus, when the true love comes,we will take our ”fully hot heart“ to enjoy it,to experience it. In this way,we surely can feel happy and free to be single,waiting for our own beloved ones!Thank you,and I strongly believe that the sweetest love will come one day!!!Ha!!!

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    1. I think that your are a very thoughtful man. Actually, I am always finding the feeling of love (of my own definition) in my life, and I am sure one day I can find it. Some of my friends think I am too idealistic about love, but I think we need this kind of dreams in our life to keep our hearts innocent.

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    2. It is true! We really need it, because I think we are young enough;we have time ,energy, innocent heart to find our owm "idealistic love". Best wishes!

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  2. I can't agree with you more. True love can bear the test of time and the most romantic thing may be growing old with the company of true love. It does exist and everyone can find it:)

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    1. There is a saying that "marriage is the tomb of love." In my opinion, I agree with you that "true love can bear the test of time." With time going by, true love can snug our hearts.

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  3. Yes, love hides behind the small things and can be find every where in daily if one is srounded by love. And that is the kind of love many people except.

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  4. Love really excites in small and simple things,even many people are confused by substances. Hope everyone can find his/her ture love.

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  5. Pink words, it suits the theme.

    I think true love is true and they are in our daily life.

    I also think some true lovers might be not suitable for marriage, like the characters in "Roman Holiday". Marriage means not only loving forever but also living forever after all.

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    1. I have heard someone said that some people may be good lovers but not good husbands or wifies.

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  6. When it comes to love, it is all about expectations. What do you expect from it? As you have pointed out, some may define love in an idealistic manner. The main thing is to have an open mind about love. Sometimes, it is right in front of you and you do not see it. Sometimes, it is there when you are not looking for it.

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  7. True love really exists, no matter what other people do. Only when you believe that the true love exists in your life can you find it. Love has nothing to do with the money, power, or beautiful appearances, it is a desire inside your heart that want to share the whole life with that person. So I think the true is just in your heart, and is waiting for you to wake it up.

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