Thursday, 1 March 2012

Bully among High School Students

                       
    I long for muscle though I am not going to have a job relating to sports. It was a miserable experience of being bullied in junior high school that give me a strong will to be stronger. I used to be teased, made fun of, and even physically offended only because I was extremely thin, weak, but tall when I was a junior high school student. I knew exactly the miserable feeling and mental pain caused by bully. Bully is definitely a violation of human right. As the young generally haven't form a mature perception of respecting others' human right, bully often happens in high school.
      Students who look weird among the majority are at risk of being bullied. Weird students can have strange appearance, abnormal behaviors, or mental disability. Common students tend to treat them differently because they look different, and some of bad guys will bully them. This poor minority are usually isolated from others and lack of friends. They may try to adjust themselves to the public, but in most cases it is too late to change themselves as the bias has been rooted in others mind. What is worse, some miserable guys, like what I used to be, are bullied because of their figures, which cannot be changed in a short period; they have to undertake the bully for a long time.
       Bully makes a sufferer painful. Imagine a case that you are the one being bullied. You haven't did anything wrong, but your peers continue to abuse you or even kick you on your legs. Even if you perform nice to them   and try to make friend with them, they still despise you without reasons. It is hard to handle this situation even for an adult, so does a teenager. For me, when I was in that situation, I felt deeply hurt and depressed, and my heart was filled with hate. Bully can ruin a person's childhood and leave permanent damage to his sense of confidence.
       Fortunately, my experience of being bullied did not damage the establishment of my personality. The only thing it leaves to me is the strong desire of being stronger.



    

6 comments:

  1. I sympathize with you when I read you were beated by bullies. Eat more and do exercise maybe will make you more stronger.It is really a bad phenomenon that the discrimination exists between the stronger and weaker.

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  2. I am sorry to hear your unfortunate experience. In high school, that kind of situation does exsit.I think it is a kind of violation of human rights.I am happy you are not influenced by that.Come on!

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  3. I really like your topic! I think bully is common in the junior and senior high schools in China. Bully ofen happened in my junior high school. Some of the strong students always teased the weak ones. As time went by, some weak students became cowardly and followed their "boss" as errand boys. Their personalities changed to some degree. What a pity!

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  4. Sorry to hear this sad story. It will hurt others and it is not a good way to build friendship. Maybe nest time, we should prevent these guys and help reduce this kind of game.

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  5. excellent attitude!! You are a happy boy now! I cannot imagine you should have this painful period of life! But you take a good attitude towards it! Admire you! You are my model!!

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  6. Bill, everyone has exprienced this kind of time in school.
    Maybe it gave you a bad menmory, but you can consider it as a tool to strenghten yourself.

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