Wednesday, 28 March 2012

Most important personal quality in my family

One reason that I am proud of being a Chinese is that China has a colorful and rich history. Tracing back to thousands years ago, the personal quality was treated seriously and was considered a important part of the old society. Some of those moral thoughts still exist and many people today. In my family, the most important personal quality is respecting and caring elders.

My parents always tell me that I should respect elders and give a hand to them; never argue with them because they have more life experiences than me. Although they may be wrong sometimes, I should try my best to understand them, respect them and love them. Their greatest wish is to get care and attention from their children. But when I was young, I could hardly understand my parents' words. There was one thing that made a big impression on me and taught me the meaning of respecting and helping elders. Once when my parents and I was on our way to another town to visit my grandparents, my father saw an old woman who was carrying a big batch of firewood walking along the road. While I was thinking it was a long way to the nearest village, my father stopped the car and asked the old woman if she minded we giving her a ride. In fact, she was frightened of us; she might think we were robbers or some bad people. But after she saw a child inside, that was me, she get into the car and we sent her home. We got grateful thanks from her and I thought she might remember us in the rest of her life. After this case, I understand some of my parents' words. What elders need is very simple; their children's care and respect is enough.

My family education teach me to be respectful of elders and I will try my best to understand them and do as mush as my parents do to help them.

4 comments:

  1. Wow!You had such a wonderful experience!Yeah,I think that the relationship between people should just like the one in your blog,and I do hope that nowadays,we can experience such harmonious things in China~I hope so~Thanks~

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  2. Your experience remind me of mine. I remember when I was a child, I liked to oppose my grandparents because I usually disagreed with their opinions. I am sure now that I made them unhappy for many times. As you mentioned, I should try to understand them and show enough respect to them even if I cannot accept their ideas. Your passage inspired me much. Thank you.

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    1. Oh~~I think that this regretful experience is something that we have to get through in my life. Since you have already known what to do in the future now,I think you will live a happy life with your family members. Haha~~

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  3. It is true that respecting the old is a very important quality of Chinese. No matter they are right or wrong, we should understant them as much as possible first before we argue against them.

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